Membership
Not everyone is looking for faster conversations.
Some of us are looking for deeper ones.
Dearly is for those who believe meaningful connection is worth slowing down for.
You already belong here.
Your Journey
Share Your Story
Receive Your Thoughtfully Curated Connection
Write Your First Four Letters
Begin Your Story Together
One Thoughtfully Curated Connection
Rather than introducing you to many people at once, we thoughtfully curate one meaningful connection at a time.
Our goal isn’t to introduce you to more people.
Our goal is to introduce you to the right person.
The First Four Letters
Every new connection begins with intention.
Your Welcome Kit includes beautiful stationery for your first four handwritten letters — one each week during your first month together.
The most meaningful connections are never rushed.
When a Connection Comes to an End
Not every connection is meant to last forever.
If a connection isn’t the right fit, we’ll thoughtfully curate a new one.
Every connection deserves a thoughtful beginning.
Privacy, by Design
Your home address is never shared. Every handwritten letter is sent through Dearly’s secure forwarding service.
We carefully forward each letter to its intended recipient, protecting both members throughout the early stages of the relationship.
If both people mutually choose to continue their connection outside of Dearly, they’re always welcome to exchange personal information later.
We protect your personal information so your letters — not your address — are the first thing your connection gets to know.
The First Chapter
Every story has a beginning. This is ours.
The first people to join Dearly will forever become part of its first chapter — always remembered as those who believed meaningful connection was worth slowing down for.
Your place in Dearly’s story can never be repeated.
Lifetime recognition as a Founding Member
Early access to future Dearly experiences
Invitations to future gatherings
Exclusive seasonal letters
Thoughtful surprises reserved for Founding Members
Questions, Thoughtfully Answered
Every membership begins with Share Your Story — a thoughtful introduction that helps us understand your personality, values, and what you’re hoping to find through handwritten letters.
We carefully review every story before introducing you to one meaningful connection.
Dearly welcomes many kinds of meaningful connection.
Some members are looking for friendship. Some hope for romance. Others simply miss the feeling of thoughtful conversation.
When you Share Your Story, you’ll tell us what you’re hoping to find.
Your Welcome Kit includes beautifully designed stationery for your first four handwritten letters — one letter each week to help your connection unfold naturally.
We encourage one letter each week during your first month.
After that, every connection develops at its own pace. There is no perfect rhythm — only the one that feels right for both of you.
You don’t need to be a great writer.
Your Welcome Kit includes thoughtful prompts and gentle inspiration to help conversations begin naturally.
The most meaningful letters aren’t perfect. They’re honest.
Not every connection is meant to last forever.
If either person feels it isn’t the right fit, we’ll thoughtfully curate a new connection.
Thoughtful introductions take time.
Most members receive their first connection within one to three weeks after completing Share Your Story.
Your home address is never shared. Every handwritten letter is sent through Dearly’s secure forwarding service.
We receive each piece of correspondence and carefully forward it to its intended recipient, protecting both members throughout the early stages of the relationship.
If, over time, both people choose to continue their connection outside of Dearly, they’re always welcome to exchange personal contact information when they both feel comfortable.
Yes. Life has seasons.
You may pause or cancel your membership whenever you need. If you decide to return, we’ll be delighted to welcome you back.
Your Investment
$39/month
One thoughtfully curated connection
Beautiful Welcome Kit with stationery for your first four handwritten letters
Dearly’s secure forwarding service to protect member privacy
Thoughtful support throughout your journey
Pause or cancel anytime
Some of the most meaningful stories begin with a single letter.
We hope yours begins here.
Join the First Chapter
Become one of Dearly’s Founding Members.
Every connection deserves a thoughtful beginning.